Not all learning happens in school. It has always been that way. While teachers are responsible for children’s learning of curricula, and held responsible for more than they really should be, parents have always been their children’s first and most important teachers.
It is in those years before school that children learn many of their attitudes to life and learning, develop language and, hopefully, a love of reading. It is parents who are the primary influencers in the early years. And that doesn’t change once they start school. Ask any teacher.
Now that many schools are closed and parents are required to support their children’s learning at home, many parents are feeling anxious and lacking in confidence about their ability to do so. It is understandable when, for so long, it has been the expectations that, at age five or six, parents will pass over the responsibility for their children’s academic progress to teachers.
Parents, you’ve got this.
Parents, I say to you, for these, hopefully, few short months out of school, you’ve got this.
The most valuable things — read, talk, play
Continue reading: Ideas for learning at home when you can’t go out – readilearn
Hear, hear!
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Thank you, Jennie.
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You’re welcome, Norah.
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I popped over to Readilearn to read the post. It is such a helpful post on what to do with your children and learning now that everyone is at home more. So agree with you on your opening line that not all learning happens in school. Learning outside of the classroom is just as important too.
Food preparation with your kids is a very creative idea. The children probably won’t be the cooks near a hot gas stove, but as you said, they can choose the menu and prepare the food. Giving them ingredients like fruit to count would be a good way to help their numeracy skills, as you alluded to.
The activities you described for reading and learning make them very fun activities at home – especially with a ‘no wrong’ approach in the first instance. When you make it fun, the more children probably want to do it.
I’d add that having a mix of both screen time and non-screen time for learning at home. Online learning is great, and so is learning offline in the real world. Both worlds also complement each other.
Hope you are doing well, Norah 🙂
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Hi Mabel, It’s so lovely to hear from you. I am very grateful for your lovely supportive comment and the additional suggestions you contributed. I didn’t explicitly state screen time so it’s good that you did. There is no getting away from screens now, it’s how they are used that’s the important thing.
Thank you for your wishes, Mabel. I am doing well. I hope you are too. 🙂
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That’s right. No getting away from screens now as we all study and work from home 😀 Hope we all remember to take regular breaks so we don’t get tired from too much screen time or constant screen staring. Take care 🙂
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This makes a lot of sense, Norah. I’m a big fan of unschooling which done right, has an amazing ability to create lifelong learners. I’ll check out your article.
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Thank you, Jacqui. I’m a big fan of putting the child at the centre of education and allowing for less formality and more flexibility too. The suggestions I share highlight the importance of learning through everyday activities – not a worksheet or check mark in sight. 🙂
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“Read/Talk/Play… You’ve got this.” Awesome, Norah. Thanks for sharing this during this time. ❤
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Thank you, Sarah. I appreciate your support. 🙂
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I do hope all the parents are queuing up to download your resources Norah – imagine all the hair that would be saved! 🙂
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I hope so too, Pauline. The ideas are easy but effective. Let’s make this less stressful than it’s seeming to be. I don’t want anyone losing hair needlessly! 🙂
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Perfect, Norah! ❤ Sharing…
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Thank you so much, Bette. 💖
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my heart goes out to all those parents struggling to work from home, educate and entertain tiny ones … makes my solitude seem selfish 🙂
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It is a difficult time for many, Kate. We need to share the load if we can. Solitude sounds perfect. You share your wisdom while keeping yourself and others safe.
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it doesn’t seem enough … volunteers are still locked out of hospitals and aged care … so it’s the least i can do 🙂
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I think staying at home is the best many of us can do at the moment. 🙂
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for sure, and that’s the easy part for me 🙂
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And me! 🙂
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Early education is so crucial, and I’m so glad you provide this service, Norah. Some of my fondest memories were reading with my son. It pays off in the end; he has a master’s degree in education and is a lot smarter than me.
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How wonderful for you for your son to follow in your footsteps, Pete. I’m sure he learned a lot of his educational skills from you. The early years are crucial. That’s why I am so passionate about them.
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Talk, play, read….
It begins with stories the children hear, repeat, re-enact, retell.
If a parent is at home I hope they are imagining all the possibilities they have right NOW with their child.
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I hope so too, D. It’s a new world for children, parents and teachers. We need to make it as much fun, least stressful and the most effective we can – for all. 🙂
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You’re resources more more important than ever at this time, Norah. It doesn’t mean that when the crisis is over, parents can sit back and let the teachers do all the work again.
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That’s right, Miriam. It’s the little things we do each day that add up to great value. 🙂
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That’s true, Norah. What you’re doing for the parents help. 🤗
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I hope so, Miriam. 💖
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I think so, Norah. ❤
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I good reminder always and especially today, Norah. I will forward this site to my daughter. She has the four and six year old girls. The Grade one teacher has been checking in regularly via zoom and with a group of children. So far, keeping it fun and hopefully no stress for everyone. I love it, “read, talk, play.” Take care. Stay well.
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Thank you for you enthusiasm, Erica. And thank you for forwarding the post to your daughter. I’m sure she’ll find some suggestions she can use with her daughters. What brilliant ages. You must miss them. I’m missing my grandchildren at the moment.
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